Break the Loops
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Today at a Glance:
We all have loops.
They don’t start as problems. In fact, many loops begin as strategies. They start out as ways to make progress, build skills or protect ourselves.
But somewhere along the way, they stop helping and start holding us back.
Loops feel safe. They feel productive. But they rarely move us forward.
What is a Loop?
A loop is a repeating cycle of actions or thoughts. In programming, loops are useful. They repeat tasks until a condition is met and then they stop.
In life, we often forget to set the stop condition.
We edit the same piece of work over and over. We start ten new projects and finish none. We gather knowledge but never apply it. We think, analyze and strategize until we’ve paralyzed ourselves.
The loop feels like work. But real work has outcomes.
Loops don’t.
Let’s talk about the most common loops:
The Perfectionism Loop
You’re not scared of hard work. You refine, polish and tweak endlessly; chasing an impossible high standard. But the more you strive for “perfect,” the more you delay sharing your work. You think your value lies in flawlessness. Remember that perfect doesn’t exist. Done is better than perfect. Publish the messy draft. Launch the imperfect product. Put yourself out there even though you don’t feel ready.
The New Idea Syndrome Loop
You love starting. New ideas give you energy. But before one project is done, you’ve already moved on to the next shiny object.
The beginning is exciting; the middle is hard.
Finish what you start. Completion builds confidence. Momentum comes from closing loops, not opening new ones.
The Overthinking Loop
You want to make the right decision. So you think, rethink and analyze every angle. But the more you think, the harder it gets to act.
Fear of failure disguises itself as preparation.
Take one small action. Clarity comes from doing not deliberating.
The Learning-for-Entertainment Loop
You consume books, courses, and podcasts but you never put them into practice.
Learning feels productive, but applying feels risky.
For every new thing you learn, take one action to implement it. Knowledge isn’t power—applied knowledge is.
Why Loops Hold Us Back
Loops are comforting because they give us the illusion of progress. They allow us to avoid discomfort, failure and uncertainty.
But the cost is high.
Every moment spent in a loop is a moment you’re not growing. Every cycle you repeat is an opportunity you’ve delayed.
Growth isn’t in the loop. Growth is on the other side of it.
Breaking Free from Loops
- Spot the Loop: Take an honest look at your habits. Where are you stuck?
- Set an Exit Condition: Define what “finished” looks like. Be specific.
- Take Imperfect Action: Action creates momentum. Don’t wait to feel ready.
- Reflect and Adjust: Breaking one loop often reveals another. Progress is a series of small exits.
This week, I challenge you to break one loop.
Finish the project you’ve been “perfecting.” Publish the idea you’ve been overthinking. Stop learning for learning’s sake; try applying. Choose one unfinished idea and bring it to completion.
Loops are comfortable, but they don’t lead to change.
Real progress comes when you step out of them.
Don’t let the loops run your life. Break them.
What’s one loop you’ll break this week?
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